Theres many people who like things in such a specific way. We create labels in society for them on many scales. But let's stop for a moment and break this down a bit further... first we have you.
If you broke everything down into its category, value or specific place and put it all organized. It's going to do one of two things... make you feel comfortable and happy because all tasks are complete and everything has its place. Or the complete opposite, you're going to feel restricted, trapped, scared to move but wanting sheer chaos which is out of the ordinary, just to break free.
Is either wrong in the situation? Or are they just accustomed to different ways of life. As long as they are functioning, maintaining all their own basic needs. Who the hell should care what they are doing? Free will is amazing. But at the same time, it doesn't mean that every single person isn't going to have an opinion about what you do, where you go, how heavy you breathe, or which way you hang the toilet paper, y'know. Cause as much as the world changes, and people are suppose to be ever changing and keeping up with trends... they can not figure out how to mind their own business.
If we took a person that looked to be in chaos, would they not think the strict by the book everything in its place was chaos to them? Cause after all, in their head they have a system. If you ask them to find something, they usually find it. We just wouldn't have a hope cause it's not our style? Most when they think of mess, they think of dirty, but you can have mess that is clean too. Just because the viewpoint is different, it doesn't mean that either party is wrong. It's their choice, it's their lives.
It can be more than applied to other parts of life as well. No one should have to explain themselves just because they prefer it that way. Why do I have to defend myself when it's my personal preference? Excuse me, I forgot to ask for your share of the rent and bills last month for running my body and my mind. Upkeep is essential! Pay up or move out of my mind. These are my personal preferences and you don't need to approve them.
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